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You Just Got Caught. Now What?

So you just got caught and your sexual secrets are no longer a secret. Now what do you do?

It's ok, in fact, I'm really glad and extremely excited for what's next for you.

In this week's video we are going to discuss the 3 things you need to be doing or understanding right now.

This could be the best-worst moment of your entire life.

Let's talk about it!

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I See Dead People: Sex Addiction Leads to Death


Are you are being duped by your porn addiction? I fear you may be.

I know it's hard to see that because we are not able to see past our lust in the moments. But Solomon has some words of wisdom for us this week.

In this weeks video we consider the book of wisdom, Proverbs.

Proverbs uses strong and provocative language in hopes that we will hear and wake up from our sexually addicted induced coma. In this video we are going to compare and contrast porn's promises and God's.

Are you one of of the walking dead?

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Don't Lie To Me: The One Problem You Have That Keeps You Addicted To Porn

It's the same story every time we talk. You tell me about your having looked at porn, masturbated, had sex again, or gone to a strip club. You are sorry, it seems genuine. We pray and plan.

Then next week we talk again and it's the same story all over again. In this video we are going to get to the bottom of what you really want.

Do you want to be healed.....or not?

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Quarantine & Porn Ep. 3: Porn Addicted Singles, Spouses & Parents

We all are facing unique challenges during this time of isolated quarantine. I want to address singles, spouses and parents specifically and talk about one opportunity you each have during this time.

In this video we are going to identify a primary challenge and a subsequent opportunity for each.

Let us not allow the COVID-19 pandemic be the context for ruining our relationships.

This is episode 3 of a 3 part mini series: Quarantine & Porn.

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Quarantine & Porn Ep. 2: Isolated Into Community

Addictions isolate us even when life is normal. How much more now that we are facing isolation due to Covid-19 (Coronavirus)?

In this video we explore creative ways to build community as we are challenged by quarantine. We have to work hard to build community with others and also take advantage of our extra time to build community with God.

This is episode 2 of a 3 part mini series: Quarantine & Porn.

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Quarantine & Porn Ep. 1: Why Am I Looking at Porn More During COVID-19?

Why is it that so many are looking at pornography more while in quarantine during Covid-19 (Coronavirus)?

In this video we discuss how circumstances expose are true selves and how to bridge our real lives and our fantasy lives.

This is episode 1 of a 3 part mini series: Quarantine & Porn.

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Porn Is Not Your Problem

Maybe you have been too focused on your porn addiction and not getting to the deeper things that feed your sex addiction.

In this video I'm going to tell you why I believe porn is not your real problem and help you to look beyond your bad behavior.

Porn is not your problem.

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Loneliness Is A Lie

Loneliness leading to isolation is a massive issue for sex addicts.

We were made to be in community, knowing others and being known by others. Most importantly, community with God.

In this video I discuss 3 ways to leave loneliness behind.

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Progress Not Perfection

Have you traded your sex addiction for another addiction - recovery or sobriety?

Too often we are not aiming at the right thing in our recovery. We may have stopped looking at porn and masturbating but are we really any better?

In this video I'm giving you 4 ways you can know that you can know you are getting your recovery wrong.

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